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Phill and Eve Vanderpool’s Move To Disney World

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Phill and Eve’s dream was to move to Disney World from New Jersey!

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They went from meeting each other to getting married in just over two and a half months. Being highly motivated, knowing what they want, and being supportive of each other, they got married and soon had their daughter on the way.

A couple weeks into being together, they decided to take a trip to Walt Disney World as part of a trip to Florida because neither of them had been there since they were young. They fell in love with everything about the area, the lifestyle, and the people who they found were like minded. So they set out their plan to move to Disney World, and with a few bumps along the way, as well as some very fortunate timing, they made their dream a reality!

They have been married for nearly five years, and Eve has worked very hard to to make her own business thrive so that she could work from home, and support her family as well. Eve talks about working a lot of hours, and even sometimes working for free. But it seems like all of her entrepreneurship attitude, drive, and dedication is paying off!

One thing that didn’t get mentioned in this episode was that they are both avid runners. I hope when I do a follow up show with them, that we can dive into their running lifestyle. When I was down in Disney World for the Expedition Everest 5K Challenge, the two of them were together as a team and finished in the top 10!

Coincidentally, today is the 5 year anniversary of meeting each other for the first time. Happy 5 year anniversary to both of you!

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Episode 20

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this is the dreamers podcast where
dreamers shared their stories to inspire

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you

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now join host Joe Pardo as he interviews
a dreamer who’s living their dreams

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welcome to the dreamers podcast I’m your
host Joe Pardo and today I’m

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interviewing bill and Evander pool who
are living their dream by moving to

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Disney World

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welcome to show felony hey yeah thanks
for having us

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thanks for being on the show I really
appreciate it so let’s start by giving

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everybody a background about yourselves

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ok so basically our phil and i met in
2009 and we’re living in New Jersey and

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we’d come to florida for vacation and
just being Florida we both decided to go

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to Disney World and i’m at that point we
didn’t have that full-blown disney

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obsession on but however after that
first trip it’d really made a second

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trip and you on we got married hot water
and then really things started taking

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off we want DBC we started coming down
at the drop of a dime just because we

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had to come back down and just became so
ridiculous that we decided we kind of

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had to just go with it go with it in a
big way we needed to move down there we

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needed to live in florida so we made the
move to South Florida Phil’s job we let

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him work down there and we moved to
South Florida and then that wasn’t

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possible so we had to move to orlando so
the next goal is to orlando area and we

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did that and you know basically it’s the
story of how all that progressed on over

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the course of our own full like 3-4
years three years it was relatively

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quick and really couldn’t believe you
know how fast it happened I mean there

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was a lot of hard work involved to do
that but we were very fortunate to just

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be in the right place at the right time
and we had a few strategies you know

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that would allow us to kind of jump on
an opportunity when it came up such as

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you know constantly living below our
means and they’re not actually owning a

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home that was very helpful because it
allowed us to move around constantly

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whenever there was an opportunity and we
eventually found a place pretty much a

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mile from the magic kingdom

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we’re in position to act on it

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and work really aligned for me as well
so there there was a lot of luck

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involved and just a lot of being able to
recognize opportunity before we dive

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deep into everything that took to get to
that point of moving to Orlando what

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would you eat say that inspires you

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just the thought of continually moving
forward I mean what we do is we pretty

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much we have the same goals in mind very
very often one of us will come up with

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with the end goal and I think it’s crazy
and the other one will no matter who it

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is but we’ll figure out ways to make
that happen and then we just bounce

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ideas off each other and it’s just a
thrill of saying okay we’ve accomplished

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this

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what’s next we’re continually happy
while we’re doing it but we always think

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that we can do better and so it’s just
that thrill of okay what’s next

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yeah and you know you always hear
stories about people achieving their

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dreams and you say all-out that’s great
that’s nice but you know you

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it’s why can’t it be you there’s no
reason it can’t be you

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it should be you should be anywhere else
should be you know you should go out and

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do it just it’s thrilling and really is
thrilling just knowing that there is

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some luck involved but you know you just
gonna show up you got a hammer away at

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it and focus it and we gotta love the
process and so that’s that that’s one of

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the things that really is sure you have
to love the process you have to love the

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whole journey and getting there

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you have to believe in it and that’s
exciting to wake up each day and just

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just hammer away at it and an attack
from every angle and you know you get

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what you want and well yeah i would
totally agree about loving the whole

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process sometimes there’s parts that you
find that you don’t love but because you

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love the dream as a whole you eventually
find ways to make it easier and and

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refine it because you love it so much
you’re able to stick with it long enough

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to refine it down to the most simplest
form right and even parts that don’t pan

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out as well as you thought

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there’s always a lesson to be queen
there’s always a reason you travel down

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that road and now you know him

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that’s not it go the other way take what
you’ve learned to get it’s bittersweet

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but this cliché to what I mean

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being able to get over the fear of
failure and just be able to find out

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what works and what doesn’t work and
failure is just another lesson that says

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hey that didn’t work let’s try again
let’s let me tune definitely so let’s

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dive deeper into where your dream came
about to move down to Disney World I’m

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10 for myself personally mean but right
before I met even I basically made each

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other and were married within two months
and months and living very very

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different lives at the time you know i
was working i am an ad night been

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working here for about I guess so almost
nine ten years at the time and you know

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it was great was a lot of fun but I
definitely didn’t see myself as a as it

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is nice and as much as I am right now
until I met II we we actually met one

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time we had I guess we known each other
for about three weeks and we decided to

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take a trip to Florida and one of the
places that we decided to go since we

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hadn’t been in a long time was disney
right and we went we went to epcot one

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time and we we just had fun it’s kind of
one where the places where we fell in

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love and decided to to go further on
with our lives and it was always

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something special to us so as we just
continue to keep coming back and kind of

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getting turning you always use that ship
so it says we’re all in basically where

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we actually went all-in we just can’t
decided that we loved it in the area and

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we just wanted to continue to be able to
do that every day you know if we were

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also living like Phil touched upon in
the beginning he had been working in

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manhattan for 10 years i was working for
a corporation on in marketing and

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fashion we’re going to the city we will
live right across the river from the

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city and we Hawk in New Jersey we’re
just we’re living fast-paced lives fun

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but you know we’ve been doing the
restaurants out to clubs line whatever

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her for a long time we were living that
way for a long time and it was getting

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old you know and we were getting older
and we were like uh you know this is

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just there’s just it’s fast-paced way of
life and we went down to Disney World we

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just found something very pure something
that we haven’t felt since we were

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younger

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since we were children and now we’re
adults enjoying that and looking for

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something different and inspired and
pure and that’s what we found and that’s

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how it made us feel every time we were
down there and around others that felt

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the same way it felt like we belong

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there’s a big community aspect as well
too I mean just seeing it as you know

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okay it’s a theme parking on the outside
it is crazy to me after I have to admit

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it sounds crazy it is it is nuts to get
into something is as much as Disney fans

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are for the hardcore ones anyway but
there’s that sense of community of we

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want to be a part of this I think is
what drove us to take the steps and do

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what it took to get down here

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so how long have you been married I just
under five years and you said you got

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married within two months of knowing
each other within two months yet think

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that was about it july right yeah about
two months we met in july two thousand

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nine went on while I’m moved in after a
week went on vacation after a month or

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two and a half months two and a half
months we got married wow my next

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question is supposed to be how you doing
was received by family but I’m more

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curious to see how your dream was
received well how getting married was

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received by faith and by your families
are they honestly didn’t hair was kind

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of shocked they were surprised it was
just oh ok ok I had a feeling i guess in

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the months leading up to everything we
had talked about each other a lot to our

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respective families and so they may have
gotten the feeling that this one’s

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different but right and we knew having
been in previous relationships of course

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and out in the world for some time that
you know it’s right it’s right and you

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just you just go with it with everything
you have in those same traits that that

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led us to make the decision to get
married quickly and so on and so forth

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kind of lead us to really on let our
passions drive us and fuel us and I feel

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like that

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translate I mean if one of us says we’re
going to do something that’s kind of

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almost at a dare

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that . and the other one hold us to it

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yeah yeah so wait let me just clarify
for our listeners because i’m having

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trouble you met each other and within
two months you were married two and a

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half months of marriage yet

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okay well because it sounded like when
you just described it that you had known

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each other for a long period of time

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oh no and you’re dating before that got
engaged and then within two miles you’re

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like you know what let’s just get
married right now

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no no so is two months from start two
wedding rings you know we had the same

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circle of friends like never met and I
only just met we met at a BBQ uh-huh

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july third BBQ actually uh in 2009 and I
was that by october we were married and

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and did you mention how old you both
were

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I’m i was thirty about 31 i think yeah I
was 20 I was going to be 29 shortly

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well I would have never guessed either
of you or the old thank ya sugar water

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you’re welcome home she yeah seriously
seriously I really thought you were the

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jersey wondering really jersey waters
preserve does the jersey and the dream

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well you know I am all about the jersey
so eyes Elysian fun too

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how was your trip well I guess your
families were pretty not surprised by

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you wanted to move to orlando or to
south florida then to orlando I think

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they thought that we were a little crazy
at first you know I had a pretty good

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job i had them a lot of experience in
history with the company I was with it

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really was not the smartest thing to do
in a crashing economy to try to find

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another position or two he had to leave
the corporate headquarters and in and

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try to come down to a place where in
with the job market in Florida at the

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time what was not doing that great so
that was the first hurdle we had to

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overcome was actually finding somebody
who is willing to to hire somebody

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during a time of economic turmoil in a
place where jobs are scarce so so that

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that they receive

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they took that is a i think the first
sign of craziness but we pursued we kept

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kind of talking fucking years off and
that kept saying what’s going on and we

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were always saying out where you know
i’m applying for this job or I’m trying

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to find a house down here or place to
live within a within our range

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I think eventually they just caught on
and just started to support us

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mind you I can interject at this point
we moved down to Florida actually we had

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had a daughter so about a year little
over a year after we got married I birth

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to our daughter and I was at home with
her and I started to really delve into

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the digital marketing sphere where
previously i had just been in

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traditional marketing license marketing
brand management and now I was going

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into the digital marketing marketing
through which I can do from my home and

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I started building my company which
allowed me to have autonomy work

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remotely was important in saving money
not only on childcare expenses but I

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could also work wherever Phil could get
a job so that actually that kind of

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planning and working at one dream while
trying to achieve another that you know

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what my one dream supported the other
dream essentially so the odds of us find

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both finding good jobs down here at the
time were very ill so I Eve came up with

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the idea that you want to work for
herself and and work from home and that

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was that’s a whole nother accomplishment
by itself and dream that was part of the

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bigger dream right but we had to take
those steps first in order to accomplish

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what we wanted to accomplish and
moreover we have to live on one income

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because we couldn’t rely on mine to
support us

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mine would just kind of be like gravy
you know so that wandering butters the

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other one is so what steps did you take
to get started on your move to get down

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I know you mentioned that you look for
jobs and you know talking to your

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family’s basically started with just a
scattering resumes wherever I possibly

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could

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speaking with recruiters and actually
accepting a job down in the fort

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lauderdale area

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the company i didn’t really want to work
for it was the florida turnpike I seen

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the rotation is this one particular
position was always being filled and

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then constantly being put out there so I
knew it wasn’t a great job

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nobody wanted to keep it so actually a
high position that winning and then talk

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to my boss and said hey I’m gonna take
this position that i want to move down

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to Florida

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I didn’t speaking with him previous to
this too and my company had in an office

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location in fort lauderdale time but
there was no transfer abilities he

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actually did not want to we lose me so
he allowed me to transfer instead very

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very lucky for me that I did because the
day that i started work down in Fort

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Lauderdale they actually laid off my
entire department in New York’s so that

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was incredible time in the only reason I
was actually allowed to stay working

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with companies that i had actually taken
it upon myself to move and they had no

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idea I was there I was actually on the
layoff list and when they found water i

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already moved down to Fort Lauderdale
they decided to keep me around so that

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was our first break

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yes and still has impeccable timing

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okay so that should be noted and that
has always been on his side whatever

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skills that that is your conscience you
have good timing he thought that might

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not happen again

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yeah and and it did happen again
actually a it’s just about before I

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would move up to orlando I actually
requested to transfer to my company had

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it in orlando office as well they agreed
to that i actually got a better position

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with a different company and as soon as
that have been my department got laid

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off again so I i have really good time
in that very fortunate and luck does

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play a big part but we are also their
thereby mindful of the fact that look

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can change at any moment and because of
that too expensively is very important

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it is that a nice a lock to a lot of its
just seeing the writing on the wall and

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knowing when when the right time to move
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yeah that’s well I don’t want to work
ever work in my department

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the moment you leave i guess i’d be
looking for another job if you don’t

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like the Harbinger here

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so what would you say your roblox to
moving were well I mean there was just

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the employment aspect alone was finding
my place that that we could live at I

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mean florida is great i mean that’s a
wonderful state but not all of its great

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as far as I guess what I’m saying let me
back that up to wherever there are the

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employment areas are there’s great
places to live and there’s not so great

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and being able to find a place where we
could raise our daughters with this

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where that school systems were not been
terrible should we decide to go to

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public school route and still allow us
to live the way that we wanted to live

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that was our second major hurdle it’s
laura is very diverse there’s a lot of

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latitude socially is like it’s been like
the wild wild west so you have to take

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where you’re going to live into
consideration with you know how you

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really want to live you have to be
honest with yourself and there’s a place

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for everybody here but you shouldn’t
look back just anywhere down here so we

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had a you know your research and find
out what would work for us we were

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really out of our element 42 years once
we move down here we took the long time

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we knew it was right but we took a long
time to adjust we didn’t know where we

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fit in you know it took about two of the
almost three years that we’ve been here

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to adjust minutes we’ve been constantly
moving around and it actually took a

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toll on you know Eve myself and our
daughter to I mean we went on vacation

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last week in our daughter so I’m packing
and actually thought we were movie again

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so we don’t know i like the house isn’t
what we we bought this house we’re

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staying

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we actually bought this you know we’re
not we’re not leaving so yeah I know

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maybe paper therapy later sure whatever
there was that mental aspect of you know

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having all of your stuff in boxes
knowing that you’re not going to be in

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one place for too long not buying
furniture not putting up this or that

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not really making a home the way makes
you feel real comfortable but we believe

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in ourselves and we knew that the end
result was going to be that we were

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going to end up where we wanted to

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be and that kind of drove us to keep
going but you know there were few

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moments where wasn’t the happiest
journey on earth to get the happiest

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place so what did you guys do to
overcome some of these things other than

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future dating therapy sessions for your
daughter

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that’s a good question what do we do to
overcome you know just basically the

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hurdles that we were receiving I mean
base i think was keeping it a good

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attitude yeah constantly and just focus
and truly believing that the situations

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that we were in first of all knowing
that situations that we’re and we’re

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really not bad at all really just a
mental hurdle for ourselves and knowing

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that a situation was temporary and just
having that mindset that wherever we are

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we’re there because we put ourselves
there and we did everything by choice

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so the fact that we were I mean anytime
we wanted to we could have said okay

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well let’s pick this place to live and
then we’ll settle down and and and start

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getting back on with our lives but i
think just knowing that we were the ones

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that were in control I mean for me
anyway that was a big part of being able

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to keep going

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now that’s why I i agree just keeping
the focus yeah keeping focused on I’m

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not naturally I guess about space cadet
i’m not naturaly one of these

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laser-sharp focus people

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you can say squirrel I will look you
know I just I I grew up in that age of

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where they’re just constant stimulation
in it so like for me to really really

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focus this was something that made me
focus because i wanted it and I’ve never

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focused so hard on what I wanted and
just shoot everything else that did not

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have to do with this you know like we
talked about living below our means we

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talked about on not putting down roots
just yet because we knew that we wanted

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to be near orlando area so there were
sacrifices their sacrifices socially

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they get too close to people who are
neighbors so on and so forth

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true too many friends down in South
Florida you know and that’s hard on a

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social person but also a lot of it the
time was spent on you know working

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building my company and doing this or
that so I didn’t have a lot of time to

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do that and so you

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got to keep the focus and know that what
you’re doing was right and you know to

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some degree also people saying you know
what are you doing well what’s your

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fallback plan if the company doesn’t
work there really isn’t a all-black plan

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there is this plan and you have to make
it you know you kind of you don’t give

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yourself the choice you focus and you
realize that you’re not giving yourself

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the choice that is your choice you know
so it’s it was really hard to keep that

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focus it really wasn’t and not to do all
the things you like to do like five

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furniture for your place because you’re
just gonna pack it up and move it asks

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still do I not say every five seconds
kinda just want I just I just want to

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put something up on the walls want these
curtains i just want you know I want to

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do that and I couldn’t do that on so it
was hard to to keep that focus but also

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you know I had to remind myself that a
lot of the stuff was complaining about

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was first world problems and now I I
kind of feel like I live with much less

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and much happier actually haven’t been
through that experience that’s pretty

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crazy that you you had to recognize your
cons in order to make them into prose i

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love the idea that you know this is the
plan and and we’re gonna make it work

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you don’t need that fall back because
you’re gonna make it work you’re just

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gonna do it

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yeah we’re just figuring out how we were
going to make that possible so for

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instance we knew we needed Yves business
to be a work-from-home adventure but we

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also knew that we couldn’t just dumped a
whole bunch of money into it to do start

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up so we had to build very slowly and
that kind of worked out perfectly

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because it gave evil lot of time to
actually learn the skills that she would

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need to do digital marketing and a lot
of free work and a lot of free work for

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people so i worked a lot of work hours i
woke up early I worked late until 2-3 I

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am after the baby went to sleep after
Phil is sleeping because he had normal

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you know 95 or whatever to get up for
such a lot of free work and I still do a

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lot of short I don’t mind it because i
like to help other people do what we did

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it wasn’t work anymore at that point and
now I do get paid but there is a lot of

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hours of not getting paid but you knew
that it was part of the process

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it was fun yes always it was up working
out for you that’s the important thing

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you can say all that in hindsight the
souls of worked out back exactly but

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that’s what this podcast hopefully helps
people do see that on to see things

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through that will be the result to just
really give it all you got and to

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believe in yourself and see through
because there’s people out there and you

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know it for some people they might say
well what’s the big deal move down to

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orlando you did this you did that we
gave up a lot of comfort suites took a

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lot of opiate calculated risks to get
where we were in a relatively short

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amount of time but you know some people
some people don’t even don’t we want to

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dare to dream that I think that’s maybe
a lot of what’s missing sometimes I feel

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the world and is just daring to dream
that getting created and I think of a

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big part of it is knowing what you want
to mean knowing why you want it is just

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as important as knowing what you want
because it turns out that may be why you

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want something allows you to change your
end goal because instead of going after

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something so specific which would you
have to be specific but but maybe that

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one goal that you thought i was gonna
give you what you wanted might not when

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once you actually do the math of what it
would take to get there and seeing the

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alternatives out there you know I think
that allows you to learn a lot more

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about yourself and a lot more about what
you’re actually capable of before i get

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into the next question which is if
there’s any parts of your dream that

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haven’t quite worked out almost the
whole journey been to get to orlando I’d

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say almost I think it took us almost
four years

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yeah as I mean to get down to Florida
only took us two years right but then it

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took almost another a year and change to
actually get to where we wanted to be

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wow yeah it doesn’t happen overnight huh
no no definitely not but I still think

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it’s really was really quick thinking
well maybe time limit i think im just

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blue because we were so busy but now
that when you say it in august four

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years is kind of a long time but yeah
it’s like having a five-year plan be

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built into that big long

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long and goal or many small goals like
we said that supported our goal and I

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think a lot of our motivation came from
having our daughter living in a way

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where we could spend as much time
together as possible on and living in a

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place that we feel comfortable raising
her in a way we felt comfortable raising

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her being an example

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mhm and just really you get your get
your stuff straight you know when you

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have a kid some people right from the
get-go Dave it just got it

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I’m we had her and it was just it was a
big part of it i mean you

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disney’s probably just the vehicle i
mean in reality what we were able to do

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by coming down here was fine extremely
affordable housing with Mary we moved

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his cooperate schools

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I and it just seems like it’s a great
place here for our daughter Sharrow up

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fresh air

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don’t get me wrong I love New Jersey
right while being in a city yet with

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City prices business solutions yeah when
we saw where we probably be going from

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stayed in the exact area that I’m
passport yet so we just decided that

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we’re gonna pick up in and do something
different and I think the inductance i

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said before disney was the vehicle to
get us to where we’re going but their

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end goal was that we wanted a certain
lifestyle that we just didn’t feel that

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we could get where we were

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well you certainly seem like you’ve
gotten that shit yeah i think we

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definitely have so what parts of your
dream haven’t quite worked out the way

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you expected you know I mean it’s hard
to actually answer that because i think

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the end result was they actually did
turnout has however you know I’d be

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expected though the means of getting
there definitely didn’t work out i mean

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i-i had a lot of prospects in the
beginning actually made it very far

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three to do the interview process and
then it just turned out that for that

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first time back in $MONTH 2009 you know
the salary that was being offered wasn’t

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really going to support our our way of
life so that so that was not a

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possibility we had a whole lot of times
where stuff was quote-unquote in the bag

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and it just didn’t turn out right

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houses that we were going to try to move
to

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I said before there are many positions
and I’m constantly looking for

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opportunities and actually the company
i’m at right now I actually applied for

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I got very far along the interview
process and just didn’t get the job and

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then that was a 2012 didn’t get the job
ended up being much better for me in the

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long run because the person who actually
got the job ended up being my mentor

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because there’s another position opened
up at the same company i applied he

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actually saw potential in me hired me
right away which I would never have

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gotten that position had I not gotten
the job to begin with and not add this

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person there to be able to see potential
and where is that know the old saying

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that everything happens for a reason I
don’t know if I believe that entirely

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but it definitely helps right yeah there
are some there are some dead-end that we

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just have to accept and go a different
way or or just keep trying keep hammer

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and keep knocking on the door me again
we’re back but not going away you know

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and I guess we’re both both pretty good
at that being persistent though I were

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both very stubborn and typically a
negative trait but it seems that we

378
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temper it with tact and so we made it
work

379
[00:28:12],820 –> [00:28:17],470
yeah it’s knowing when to compromise
compromise but being lates willing to

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hold on to that which you refuse a place
so what would you say if you were

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stranded on a deserted island with your
family and each of you had three things

382
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i know i don’t think he would be in a
taxi back is ok because then I can order

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more important accessories like mascara
like obviously I know yeah i would say

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internet access i know i think i’d want
some sort of mechanism to right so is a

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journal with a netapp end of
never-ending ink and a drum what season

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are usually so on the same guy just
don’t even understand that that’s what

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[00:29:03],429 –> [00:29:09],639
that’s why i love you this past i just
wanna with internet access and i’ll make

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everything else happened and now

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internet access a computer and something
solar-powered to continually power my

390
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device practical yes uh he’s like said
you know I a journal with some mechanism

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to write I think I’d wanted some sort of
a drum I don’t necessarily play the

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drums but i think i’d want music right
and the drum is probably the closest

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thing I be able to teach myself how to
play

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hey I’m i’m still to learn the drums
percent behind me is the drum set and we

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can tell because the reverb coming off
of it so I’ve covered with blankets but

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[00:29:50],290 –> [00:29:58],629
yeah I mean I bought it from to try to
learn better on a deserted island

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alex is gonna be a radio or whatever you
want some music I should find that

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service and you know she’s got a plated
i guarantee i’ll give you one hour and i

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promise you i’ll put the drawn we need
to get rest can i borrow $MONEY i can

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turn it over and carry stuff the catch

401
[00:30:17],710 –> [00:30:23],290
yeah but I i think we should probably
talk about how to get off the island it

402
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were or the best way we can make make it
on the island because like what we did

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with our dreams and what we do is that
we always talk and analyze their kind of

404
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honest with each other kind of us huh

405
[00:30:37],90 –> [00:30:41],649
i wiII temperate but honest with each
other we’re at what we need to do we

406
[00:30:41],650 –> [00:30:45],700
need to focus you know or you know he’ll
tell me you know I see you struggling

407
[00:30:45],700 –> [00:30:50],950
with this and we just go back over to
the real philosophical point of what

408
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we’re trying to do in the actual
concrete points of what we’re trying to

409
[00:30:54],910 –> [00:30:58],930
do we constantly talk about it and
assess for right along the way I mean

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[00:30:58],930 –> [00:31:03],730
both faucet multiple times have gone off
the rails and just having the other one

411
[00:31:03],730 –> [00:31:07],750
there that kind of pull us back i think
it’s been key to actually making this

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happen

413
[00:31:08],320 –> [00:31:13],120
let’s be honest I was off the rails more
still is like you know very patient so

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we will plan each other’s strengths and
we help each other out that was it was

415
[00:31:17],800 –> [00:31:20],590
key we would have done it one without
the other

416
[00:31:20],590 –> [00:31:24],40
so what would you say your dreams for
the future look like

417
[00:31:24],40 –> [00:31:25],30
well I mean

418
[00:31:25],30 –> [00:31:30],129
right now i’m jealous of Eve she gets a
sleeping whenever she wants to you know

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[00:31:30],130 –> [00:31:33],490
she does which I mean but that old
saying is you do what you love you’ll

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[00:31:33],490 –> [00:31:38],620
never work and I see that with her right
now I would like more the same i like to

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[00:31:38],620 –> [00:31:42],580
be able to join even her adventure and I
think our joint remiss to build the

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[00:31:42],580 –> [00:31:48],70
business up to the point where we’re not
working in a traditional means or

423
[00:31:48],70 –> [00:31:51],730
fashion anymore and we’re still able to
live the lifestyle that we want that’s

424
[00:31:51],730 –> [00:31:56],560
gonna take out of a whole line of work
that we haven’t even conceived yet but

425
[00:31:56],560 –> [00:32:00],40
you know we’ve got the foundation built
and and we’re just taking it slow

426
[00:32:00],610 –> [00:32:06],280
yeah what we’re working on it i am
sometimes I have you know my work by

427
[00:32:06],280 –> [00:32:12],700
nature is not exactly balanced there’s
some days that I can kind of been we got

428
[00:32:12],700 –> [00:32:16],900
do it i need to do on but then I’m
working late or i’m working on the

429
[00:32:16],900 –> [00:32:21],130
weekends or I’m working through vacation
we just took a vacation and I did work

430
[00:32:21],130 –> [00:32:24],910
through vacation you know of course
enjoyed time with the family but because

431
[00:32:24],910 –> [00:32:28],810
of the nature of my work and how it
centers on Disney and Disney resorts

432
[00:32:28],810 –> [00:32:33],909
parks and resorts we were at disney
resort so I was a lot of the time you

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[00:32:33],910 –> [00:32:39],820
know working on angles reviewing things
considering i wanted i needed content

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[00:32:39],820 –> [00:32:44],800
wise for website blog post so on and so
forth so there’s there’s a sacrifice in

435
[00:32:44],800 –> [00:32:50],20
that but then there’s also like I said
go into the parking going oh how what I

436
[00:32:50],20 –> [00:32:54],940
have to do today is just get these
pictures of star wars weekends it again

437
[00:32:54],940 –> [00:32:59],590
it doesn’t feel like work though and i
think that’s that’s the point talking to

438
[00:32:59],590 –> [00:33:04],629
Doug Barnes about how I really am
enjoying what I’m doing with with the

439
[00:33:04],630 –> [00:33:09],790
show and I i hope to continue it and
hopefully it will be a full-time

440
[00:33:09],790 –> [00:33:12],879
endeavor along with some other things
that I have up my sleeve

441
[00:33:13],750 –> [00:33:19],300
I don’t think i would consider this work
I’ve always found myself to enjoy doing

442
[00:33:19],300 –> [00:33:24],850
what i enjoy you know and it doesn’t
matter whether it’s for an hour or three

443
[00:33:24],850 –> [00:33:29],679
hours it doesn’t matter from getting
paid or not paid as long as it’s fun

444
[00:33:29],680 –> [00:33:32],650
right yeah i mean that’s the most
important part

445
[00:33:32],650 –> [00:33:36],670
you gotta find something that you enjoy
and that’s can be the hardest part I

446
[00:33:36],670 –> [00:33:38],590
mean most people don’t know what they
want

447
[00:33:38],590 –> [00:33:41],799
that’s why we have so many kids in debt
from college because they didn’t know

448
[00:33:41],799 –> [00:33:44],260
what they wanted they listen what
everybody told on them

449
[00:33:44],260 –> [00:33:48],220
yeah exactly they just kept changing
their curriculum over and over and over

450
[00:33:48],220 –> [00:33:52],870
again or they went for a profession that
they didn’t realize wouldn’t support

451
[00:33:52],870 –> [00:33:58],000
their ultimate goals or support them in
a way that they were accustomed to or

452
[00:33:58],000 –> [00:34:01],630
wanted to live you have to be real about
that you have to know what you’re going

453
[00:34:01],630 –> [00:34:07],120
to sacrifice and what you can sacrifice
one one common theme on past shows was

454
[00:34:07],120 –> [00:34:09],339
the dreams costs money

455
[00:34:09],339 –> [00:34:14],20
yes yes yes they can take a lot of money
as well as said yeah yeah

456
[00:34:14],710 –> [00:34:20],379
tap that’s 100% true i mean some people
say well what’s your dream on to win the

457
[00:34:20],379 –> [00:34:24],969
lottery that’s that’s a wish it’s not
it’s not really a dream in that kind of

458
[00:34:24],969 –> [00:34:26],230
just happens to you

459
[00:34:26],230 –> [00:34:31],300
dreams we gotta play like that yeah
except yeah yeah well that’s something

460
[00:34:31],300 –> [00:34:36],399
to you do need inspiration I mean we
couldn’t live like Meisner’s in South

461
[00:34:36],399 –> [00:34:42],9
Florida and never take trips up to
Disney World we had to play and like

462
[00:34:42],10 –> [00:34:46],510
right now you ask this what our next
goal was and certainly we’re still

463
[00:34:46],510 –> [00:34:49],570
working on our goal with not like you
know hey there’s the end of the line

464
[00:34:49],570 –> [00:34:55],179
it’s actually just the beginning in many
ways but we’re also mindful that while

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[00:34:55],179 –> [00:35:00],40
we go ahead forth into the next goal we
take a break and take a breather and

466
[00:35:00],40 –> [00:35:05],170
recharge and refresh and comeback
inspired before we make another big push

467
[00:35:05],170 –> [00:35:09],520
to something I mean with the way it
works with us too as we feel like you

468
[00:35:09],520 –> [00:35:12],910
said we hit those plateaus and then the
next thing just sort of pops we don’t

469
[00:35:12],910 –> [00:35:17],830
know when it happens but something just
hops and then rising yeah exactly and

470
[00:35:17],830 –> [00:35:21],640
then we make it happen that was used to
joke around and say that it once we

471
[00:35:21],640 –> [00:35:26],799
vocalized it then it had to happen and
that’s pretty much being the pattern

472
[00:35:26],800 –> [00:35:33],730
yeah this is a dangerous thing so do you
have any last thoughts for audience that

473
[00:35:33],730 –> [00:35:34],869
you’d like to share

474
[00:35:34],869 –> [00:35:40],570
yeah you and when we are done this
interview i have even more that you talk

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[00:35:40],570 –> [00:35:46],30
to you that that’s always wake you know
there’s there’s a lot of people that are

476
[00:35:46],30 –> [00:35:50],349
going to tell you that you can’t because
they can imagine that’s that’s kind of

477
[00:35:50],349 –> [00:35:52],180
their problem

478
[00:35:52],180 –> [00:35:55],808
it’s not something you should concern
yourself with because not something you

479
[00:35:55],809 –> [00:36:00],640
need to focus on and it and you know
honestly I I think it’s just remembering

480
[00:36:00],640 –> [00:36:05],440
that that life is just magical and
there’s so much about it that we don’t

481
[00:36:05],440 –> [00:36:08],800
understand so much about our
capabilities and how to tap into

482
[00:36:08],800 –> [00:36:16],59
potential that we just have as a society
as a as a species we just have have only

483
[00:36:16],59 –> [00:36:20],890
grazed the surface and just to keep
digging around and find most formulas

484
[00:36:20],890 –> [00:36:25],450
that works for for you and apply them to
what you want i mean i think that’s

485
[00:36:25],450 –> [00:36:26],980
that’s been our secret

486
[00:36:26],980 –> [00:36:30],579
yeah live your own dream you know like
you said there’s many kids in school

487
[00:36:30],579 –> [00:36:34],990
down for this or that you know their
parents think they’re good at this

488
[00:36:34],990 –> [00:36:39],790
their teachers think they’re good at
this they should do this this is normal

489
[00:36:39],790 –> [00:36:43],690
this is what you should do you know
maybe stop and ask what you’re

490
[00:36:43],690 –> [00:36:47],680
comfortable doing what you’re
comfortable living with and what you’d

491
[00:36:47],680 –> [00:36:50],649
be happy doing and then you know make
that work

492
[00:36:50],650 –> [00:36:55],510
that’s like your own dream it comes down
to what you’re passionate about I think

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[00:36:55],510 –> [00:37:01],119
once you have that passion and that
desire and that love for something it’s

494
[00:37:01],119 –> [00:37:04],510
going to carry you don’t know where it’s
going to end up and just have to be

495
[00:37:04],510 –> [00:37:09],849
willing to to accept a bumpy road along
the way but I truly believe that well is

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[00:37:09],849 –> [00:37:14],559
there any Facebook Twitter websites
you’d like to plug before we depart

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[00:37:14],559 –> [00:37:21],309
yes actually I’m it is our baby it’s
kind of a passion project and it’s

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[00:37:21],309 –> [00:37:26],589
disney aggregate website and we can all
your favorite disney bloggers and

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websites called monorail media.com and
we have original content to but it’s

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[00:37:33],190 –> [00:37:36],160
kinda like the daily paper for all your
disney websites

501
[00:37:36],160 –> [00:37:39],339
yep and at mongrel media on Twitter

502
[00:37:39],339 –> [00:37:46],000
yes and facebook and instagram i think
on tumblr to work at every angle or not

503
[00:37:46],000 –> [00:37:49],930
they’re about me okay well thank you so
much for being on the show I really

504
[00:37:49],930 –> [00:37:55],58
appreciate and I really appreciated the
excitement that you’ve had when I told

505
[00:37:55],59 –> [00:37:56],380
her about this show

506
[00:37:56],380 –> [00:38:01],599
yeah that was the 5-hour energy but no I
am genuinely excited and I was genuinely

507
[00:38:01],599 –> [00:38:05],680
excited that you had such a great idea
for a podcast and

508
[00:38:05],680 –> [00:38:11],859
firing and very flattered that you asked
us and thank you so much yeah it’s just

509
[00:38:11],860 –> [00:38:16],960
very inspiring really and honestly it’s
just a really cool idea that you had to

510
[00:38:16],960 –> [00:38:22],30
have a dream be the topic and I think
we’re very happy that you asked to be a

511
[00:38:22],30 –> [00:38:22],570
part of it

512
[00:38:22],570 –> [00:38:25],780
well thank you for being a part of it
it’s great to have you on and it’s great

513
[00:38:25],780 –> [00:38:30],280
to learn so much about you guys thanks
again for coming on the show and I I’d

514
[00:38:30],280 –> [00:38:33],820
like to have you guys on it again at
some point that’d be great you know six

515
[00:38:33],820 –> [00:38:37],210
months a year and we’ll catch up on
where you guys have been in that time

516
[00:38:37],210 –> [00:38:40],210
hopefully Phil doesn’t leave a job and
then everybody gets fired

517
[00:38:41],620 –> [00:38:44],770
ok now we start working on a dream
that’s cool

518
[00:38:44],770 –> [00:38:49],150
now that’s awesome thank you thank you
so much for actually having this really

519
[00:38:49],150 –> [00:38:52],870
great idea i can be to share with
everyone thank you for joining us for

520
[00:38:52],870 –> [00:38:58],240
this episode of the dreamers podcast
follow us on twitter and dreamers

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[00:38:58],240 –> [00:39:04],990
podcast join us on facebook at
facebook.com slash dreamers podcast

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[00:39:05],870 –> [00:39:10],100
if you or someone you know would like to
be a guest on the dreamers podcast

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[00:39:10],100 –> [00:39:18],110
please send an email to j and j parr .
co this podcast is copyright 2014 by jay

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Park . comb

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