I struggled before I learned how to listen to my inner voice! | Super Joe Pardo Professional Business Coach

I struggled before I learned how to listen to my inner voice!

listen to my inner voice

Today I talk about the difficult time I had finding and figuring out how to listen to my inner voice. I struggled for nearly a year talking with a therapist looking for validation and permission. Finally, I figured out that I needed to search harder within myself and listen to my inner voice. That was when everything started to change for me, very rapidly and eventually it has gotten much easier!

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Episode 259

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welcome everybody to the dreamers

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podcast I’m your host your party

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unfortunately a big race is not here to

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be here with me here today today I want

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to talk about a topic that it took me

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about a year of going to therapy to

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figure out and the whole time the answer

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was right in front of me so leading up

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to the time which I was getting ready to

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leave my family’s business i was going

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to a therapist I was coming week after

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week after week for an entire year and

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all I was doing was complaining about my

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working you know the things that weren’t

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going right at work how I was frustrated

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with the reactions i was getting from

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both some of the employees family and

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everything and I was just I was ready to

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give up and be fed I was fed up with the

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whole situation and I had a therapist

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that refused to tell me that it was ok

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leave he was not willing to give me that

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permission and i wrote about this in my

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book 31like changing concepts is that

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you don’t need permission from anyone

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except yourself to do things that is

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that you you you and you want to do

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me myself and I he has tagged me myself

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and I radio South Anthony days I she

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totally permission to give yourself our

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provision for anyone else to give

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yourself permission to do things that it

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is that you want to do and that you feel

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is right for you so it took me a year to

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figure out the finally give myself that

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permission to say you know what enough

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is enough

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I’m ready to move on and I i need to

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leave i need to go do something else in

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my life I don’t know what that is yet

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but I’m gonna figure it out i started

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down that path i started going back to

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school to work on getting my associates

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associates

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yeah associate’s degree in business

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management which wound up going for a

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little while for almost two years doing

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a bunch of courses to get some work done

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on that on

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degree and ultimately decided that

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wasn’t necessarily going to help me go

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where I wanted to go into things that I

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wanted to do so yeah I i really think

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that you need to be able to listen to

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your inner voice and then you you need

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to identify what is really really want

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out of what it’s telling you to do and

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then you can move on to amplify that

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message to yourself so you have the

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courage and you give yourself permission

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to go into the things that is that you

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want to do it’s so so important for you

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to be happy

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I you know some people say don’t follow

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your passion because that’s not gonna

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leave you the money but before you even

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think about money before you even think

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about any of that stuff

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think about yourself and the things that

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is that you want and the things that

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you’re doing in your life that are

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already making it miserable for you so

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you can start to make it better and it

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when it’s better for you it’s better for

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everyone else that was better for my

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wife and it was it ultimately has been

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better for everybody i know that i’m

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happier person in society and doing the

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things that it is that I love so listen

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to your inner voice amplified message to

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yourself and then start to make a game

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plan and go from there and you can even

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use the college ring book that I bro I

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as a game plan

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you know as a framework to build your

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game plan to move on and figure out what

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it is that you want to do with your life

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from here on out

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ok on Joe Parr know this has been the

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dreamers podcast i really appreciate

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like to do these more often i’m going to

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try to do these more often and I’m

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trying a new camera setup here so i hope

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that it worked out really really well

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there’s light and and it’s it’s not too

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bad so we’ll say and hopefully I able

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will be joining me next week for the

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dreamers podcast Friday edition

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hopefully it’s not

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full-time addition I have so many things

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coming up i’ll be going to California

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shortly to write a book co-authoring a

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book with the one and only

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Jeff Barnes if you haven’t picked up

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with the wall go pick it up it’s on

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amazon and it’s actually a bunch of

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different places but i can get on Amazon

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wonderful ball wonderful guy and I’m

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looking forward to co-authoring a

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children’s version of the book with him

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if you haven’t heard it’s gonna be

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awesome and i’m going to California to

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help start that process so i guess i’ll

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see you all next week

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this this upcoming week i have an

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interview coming out with kin shipler

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who is an awesome wordpress person she’s

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a IT person at heart and she’s been

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doing i.t since the eighties when she

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was one of the few and only women in IT

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doing what it is that she loved to do so

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thanks again for watching or listening

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to the dreamers podcast happened a

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magical weekend it’s going to be a great

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week ahead

Super Joe Pardo
Super Joe Pardo
A sixth-generation award-winning business coach who works with owners to help them build their business for their lifestyle. Click here to learn more about my story!

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